We're Not Really Strangers
A cute game I made based off the card game that won't deliver here, but we can play before and during Thailand :)
What do you think I was like in high school?
Level 1Guess what my favorite comfort meal is.
Level 1What's your first impression of my taste in music?
Level 1Do I seem like a morning person or a night owl?
Level 1What do you think I'd be famous for?
Level 1Guess the last thing that made me cry.
Level 1What kind of pet do you think I had growing up?
Level 1Do you think I'm the oldest, youngest, middle, or only child?
Level 1What do you think my dream job was as a kid?
Level 1Guess how I take my coffee — or if I even drink it.
Level 1Which city do you picture me living in, ten years from now?
Level 1What do you think I spend too much money on?
Level 1Do I seem like someone who replies fast or leaves people on read?
Level 1What's one thing you'd guess I'm secretly good at?
Level 1What do you think my love language is?
Level 1Do I seem more like a planner or a go-with-the-flow person?
Level 1What fictional character do I remind you of?
Level 1Guess my go-to karaoke song.
Level 1What do you think my friends tease me about?
Level 1What would my ideal Sunday look like, in your eyes?
Level 1Do you think I've ever had my heart broken?
Level 1What do you think I'm most afraid of?
Level 1What's something you assumed about me that turned out to be wrong?
Level 1What do you think I'd order at a fancy restaurant?
Level 1Do I seem like I'd keep a secret well?
Level 1What do you think my phone's lock screen is?
Level 1Guess the season I love most, and why.
Level 1What's the first thing you noticed about me?
Level 1Do you think I'm more like my mom or my dad?
Level 1What do you think I'd do with a free year off?
Level 1What decade do I seem like I belong in?
Level 1Do I strike you as someone who journals?
Level 1What do you think keeps me up at night?
Level 1Guess what I was doing right before this conversation.
Level 1What kind of teacher would I be?
Level 1What's a version of yourself you've outgrown?
Level 2What are you pretending not to know right now?
Level 2When was the last time you felt truly proud of yourself?
Level 2What's something you wish people asked you about more?
Level 2What does a perfect friendship look like to you?
Level 2Which memory do you return to when you need comfort?
Level 2What's a lesson you keep having to relearn?
Level 2What part of your personality took you the longest to accept?
Level 2What do you miss that you never expected to miss?
Level 2Who taught you the most about love, even by accident?
Level 2What's something small that instantly makes your day better?
Level 2What's the bravest thing you've ever done?
Level 2When do you feel most like yourself?
Level 2What are you still carrying that you could set down?
Level 2What do you need more of in your life right now?
Level 2What's a belief you held strongly that you've since changed?
Level 2What do you wish you had been told at sixteen?
Level 2What role do you usually play in your friend group?
Level 2What's the kindest thing a stranger has done for you?
Level 2Which compliment has stuck with you the longest?
Level 2What does home feel like, not look like?
Level 2What are you most protective of?
Level 2What's a dream you've quietly given up on?
Level 2How do you act when nobody's watching that you'd hide otherwise?
Level 2What are you learning to forgive yourself for?
Level 2What's something you're looking forward to that you haven't told anyone?
Level 2When did you last change your mind about someone?
Level 2What do you want to be remembered for?
Level 2What's a fear you've outgrown?
Level 2Which relationship in your life has changed you the most?
Level 2What does success look like to you right now — honestly?
Level 2What do you do when you feel lonely?
Level 2What's the hardest goodbye you've ever said?
Level 2Where do you think you hold back the most?
Level 2What's one thing you'd tell your past self a year ago?
Level 2What do you think I need to hear right now?
Level 3What about me do you think I underestimate?
Level 3What have you learned about yourself from knowing me?
Level 3What's something you admire about me that I might not see?
Level 3When did you feel closest to me?
Level 3What do you think my biggest strength is in friendship?
Level 3What's one thing you wish you could protect me from?
Level 3What do you think I'm still healing from?
Level 3What would you want me to know if we never spoke again?
Level 3How have you seen me change since we met?
Level 3What's a moment with me you'll never forget?
Level 3What do you think I should let go of?
Level 3What's something you've been meaning to say to me?
Level 3What part of me do you think I hide from most people?
Level 3What do you hope for me in the next five years?
Level 3In what way are we most alike?
Level 3In what way are we most different — and why does it work?
Level 3What does our friendship give you that nothing else does?
Level 3What do you think I'm most afraid people will find out about me?
Level 3What would you thank me for if you had to do it today?
Level 3What question are you scared to ask me?
Level 3What do you think makes me hard to love — and easy to love?
Level 3When have I made you feel seen?
Level 3What's something you've never told me but think I'd understand?
Level 3What do you think is my most beautiful quality?
Level 3If you could give me one piece of advice, what would it be?
Level 3What did this conversation teach you about me?
Level 3What's one way I could show up better for you?
Level 3What do you think I deserve but don't let myself have?
Level 3Describe me in three words — then explain one of them.
Level 3What moment made you realize you liked me?
RelationshipWhat does being loved look like to you?
RelationshipWhen did you last feel proud to be mine?
RelationshipWhat's something about us you never want to change?
RelationshipHow do you know when I'm upset, even when I say I'm fine?
RelationshipWhat's one habit of mine that secretly makes you smile?
RelationshipWhat do you think we're best at as a team?
RelationshipWhen do you feel most chosen by me?
RelationshipWhat's a fight we had that taught you something about me?
RelationshipWhat do you hope we're doing together in five years?
RelationshipWhat's something you've wanted to try together but haven't asked for?
RelationshipWhat made you nervous the first time you met me?
RelationshipHow have I changed since we've been together?
RelationshipWhat's the most romantic thing I've done without realizing it?
RelationshipWhat do you need from me that you find hardest to ask for?
RelationshipWhen we disagree, what do you wish I'd do differently?
RelationshipWhat memory of us would you save from a fire?
RelationshipWhat's one way we could make the other feel more appreciated this week?
RelationshipWhere do you feel safest — physically and emotionally?
RelationshipWhat's a dream you have that involves both of us?
RelationshipWhat do you think our biggest strength is as a couple?
RelationshipWhat's something you'd never do again, but don't regret?
RelationshipHow do you want to be comforted when you're sad?
RelationshipWhat's the difference between how you loved before me and how you love now?
RelationshipWhat's one thing you'd want to tell me on a hard day?
RelationshipFinish this sentence: "With you, I don't have to…"
RelationshipText someone you haven't spoken to in a year. Read your message out loud first.
WildcardBoth of you: share the last photo in your camera roll and explain it.
WildcardHold eye contact for 30 seconds. Then say the first word that comes to mind.
WildcardWrite a two-line poem about the other person. Read it aloud.
WildcardShow each other your most-played song this month.
WildcardDraw each other in 60 seconds, eyes closed.
WildcardTell the story behind your oldest scar, physical or not.
WildcardSwap one honest compliment and one gentle critique.
WildcardEach of you: name a song that sums up this moment.
WildcardCall or voice-note each other something you're grateful for.
WildcardShare an embarrassing memory you've never told anyone.
WildcardMake a promise to each other for the next month. Write it down.
WildcardBoth of you: share the last thing you searched online.
WildcardPick a card for the other person to answer. No skipping.
WildcardTell each other one thing you'd do together if money didn't matter.
WildcardWrite a note to your partner. Open it only after you've gone your separate ways today.
Final CardSay what you'll remember most about this conversation.
Final CardFinish this sentence for each other: "Since tonight, I see you as…"
Final Card